Networking — it’s a dreaded word. Every time I hear the words “networking opportunity,” I am forcibly reminded that adulthood is coming up quickly, and with adulthood comes awkward conversations with people you don’t know.
But that’s part of life, and if you look at it the right way, it’s a really cool part of life.
First, going to major-specific networking events helps you connect with people who actually work in your area of study. There’s something really satisfying about meeting people who do the things you’re most interested in for a living.
Not only do you get to meet these people, though; you can really get to know them.
You can ask them tough questions, and they’ll almost always give you good feedback. It’s important to understand what you’re getting into before you get into it. Besides that, attending these events can help you prepare for the real world, where you’ll be forced to interact with new people constantly.
These events are usually business professional, meaning attendees need to figure out how to dress well, almost always with a limited wardrobe. While this sounds like a terrible chore, it’s actually really helpful to learn how to wear something nicer than sweatpants and T-shirts in public.
Just this week, I had to force myself to attend a networking event, working up my courage and gritting my teeth when I realized none of my friends would be going with me. I ended up being the only student to go, but it was actually a great opportunity, and I even got to talk to one of my personal inspirations.
Networking can help you learn how to dress properly for a job, how to talk to strangers with ease and how to carry yourself without looking or feeling awkward.
If all else fails, these opportunities often include free food, and if that’s not a reason to do something that might otherwise make you uncomfortable, I don’t know what is.
mcelfrdh14@bonaventure.edu
